Betty had a good day today. The doctors plan a few additional radiation treatments next week and she will see the oncologist next Wednesday morning.
Since she was having such a good day she wanted to stop by to see her Clark County quilting friends. She ate a fish sandwich and okra at The Dock and then stopped to visit for a little bit. It pleased her so to see her friends.
Raymond behaved himself in the back seat. He spotted a female truck driver this morning and a field of geese. All in all he had a good day. He'll be in the back seat until Thursday. He is not in pain and is back to doing dishes. Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Boley Family
Boley Cook Book
Monday, January 31, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Sunday January 30th
Betty and Raymond's blog has had 4,500 hits. Can you believe it? Did you know you can sign up to have the blog delivered to your computer automatically? That way you wouldn't have to check the blog several times a day. Raymond's ego may not be able to cope with fewer hits so you might as well keep checking in frequently!
God bless Sharon's heart. I keep thanking Betty and Raymond for having her. She comes in handy. She's one of those who likes to clean so she kept busy during her stay cleaning everything. I'm glad I hadn't already done all that so she wouldn't have something to do! On the other hand, she left a Subway sandwich in the frig. That's not quite the quality of meals we have become accustomed to. I suppose I could actually cook something this week.
Raymond can start driving again on Thursday. He just asked permission to ride along to Betty's appointment tomorrow. Times have really changed. It used to be the other way around. We used to have to ask his permission.
Betty and Raymond seem to be getting along very nicely at present. I'll probably start letting them have some privacy soon. Of course, that means fewer funny stories to share and fewer opportunities to experience first hand the beauty of this phase of life. We, as a family, have discovered first hand the power of our family love. We have been able to overcome mountains thus far, and I know the future will bring challenges we will continue to tackle one day at a time.
The Boley Family
God bless Sharon's heart. I keep thanking Betty and Raymond for having her. She comes in handy. She's one of those who likes to clean so she kept busy during her stay cleaning everything. I'm glad I hadn't already done all that so she wouldn't have something to do! On the other hand, she left a Subway sandwich in the frig. That's not quite the quality of meals we have become accustomed to. I suppose I could actually cook something this week.
Raymond can start driving again on Thursday. He just asked permission to ride along to Betty's appointment tomorrow. Times have really changed. It used to be the other way around. We used to have to ask his permission.
Betty and Raymond seem to be getting along very nicely at present. I'll probably start letting them have some privacy soon. Of course, that means fewer funny stories to share and fewer opportunities to experience first hand the beauty of this phase of life. We, as a family, have discovered first hand the power of our family love. We have been able to overcome mountains thus far, and I know the future will bring challenges we will continue to tackle one day at a time.
The Boley Family
Friday, January 28, 2011
Friday January 28th
Today has been a quiet day. Betty and Devona made the trip to the Brown Cancer Center and Raymond and I stayed home. We took the PT Cruiser out for a spin to see if he could hear "the new sound." We went 65 MPH and didn't hear anything. I guess he'll have to wait until he can drive before he is sure there isn't a concern.
Dennis got a good night's sleep after most of a night in a straight back chair. He did a good job watching out for Raymond.
I must be becoming a drug pusher. I keep feeling like someone who has had surgery should be feeling discomfort but he keeps refusing even Tylenol. His constant refrain, " No, it doesn't hurt. I can't wait to see that doctor to tell him I didn't even know he did the surgery!" Devona tried to tell him today that he talked to the doctor in pre op, but Raymond likes his story better and he's sticking to it.
The incision is beautiful! Raymond was in very good hands. His next appointment is on the 15th with the surgeon for a check up. I predict good results. We really appreciate Dr. Alankar's office scheduling the surgery as soon as possible.
Betty hasn't shown signs of renewed energy yet. We're waiting and hoping. There's always tomorrow. Betty has at least one more week of radiation and chemo. There may be a few added days tacked on the following week. We will then wait for our appointment with Dr. Martin, the surgeon, on Feb 28th.
I'm taking off for the weekend and Sharon is moving in. She's been doing wonderful cooking lately. I can't wait to see what's in the refrigerator when I return.
Raymond could probably use some chances to get out this week since he can't drive. Call him for a date. Please!!!!!!!!!!!
The Boley Family
Dennis got a good night's sleep after most of a night in a straight back chair. He did a good job watching out for Raymond.
I must be becoming a drug pusher. I keep feeling like someone who has had surgery should be feeling discomfort but he keeps refusing even Tylenol. His constant refrain, " No, it doesn't hurt. I can't wait to see that doctor to tell him I didn't even know he did the surgery!" Devona tried to tell him today that he talked to the doctor in pre op, but Raymond likes his story better and he's sticking to it.
The incision is beautiful! Raymond was in very good hands. His next appointment is on the 15th with the surgeon for a check up. I predict good results. We really appreciate Dr. Alankar's office scheduling the surgery as soon as possible.
Betty hasn't shown signs of renewed energy yet. We're waiting and hoping. There's always tomorrow. Betty has at least one more week of radiation and chemo. There may be a few added days tacked on the following week. We will then wait for our appointment with Dr. Martin, the surgeon, on Feb 28th.
I'm taking off for the weekend and Sharon is moving in. She's been doing wonderful cooking lately. I can't wait to see what's in the refrigerator when I return.
Raymond could probably use some chances to get out this week since he can't drive. Call him for a date. Please!!!!!!!!!!!
The Boley Family
Thursday, January 27, 2011
The Troops Are Home
There was a gala reunion this afternoon as both patients arrived home. They had talked earlier in the day, but came face to face over the kitchen table. Raymond was reading the mail when Betty arrived and joined him to enjoy today's cards. There was a card from Ft Worth, TX and one from quilting friends. There was one from a sister-in-law and another from a friend. They all matter so much.
Dennis has few funny stories to tell about the experience. Raymond's blood pressure was low so they gave him something to raise it. Then the task was to get it stabilized. One assistant argued that he had open heart surgery and Raymond had to convince him it was only an artery cleaning. A lovely, outgoing African woman tried to talk him into going back across the ocean with her and the man taking lunch orders was sorry to say they did not serve vinegar pie. So Raymond chose to return to Scottsburg over the exotic woman from across the pond, and I had homemade coconut cream pie waiting for him. All in all he did pretty well.
Dr. Alankar, the surgeon, must have had plastic surgery training for the incision was beautifully stitched. Raymond wore no visible bandage. His 83 year old wrinkles will surely hide the fact that he even "had some work done!"
Betty came home in good spirits. She warned that she may get her nose out of joint if Raymond received more attention so I'm going to have to be careful. I gave her part of my pie to keep her in a good mood. It seemed to help. Betty had a bed this morning during the transfusion and that helped. Devona chose to take a nap in the waiting room and a good Samaritan covered her sleeping form with a blanket to keep her warm. There are angels among us.
Raymond is presently in his recliner enjoying his favorite root beer sucker and watching TV. Betty is nestled in her wing back going in and out of a nap. We are all a little sleepy and a little grateful that all is well for now.
The Boley Family
Dennis has few funny stories to tell about the experience. Raymond's blood pressure was low so they gave him something to raise it. Then the task was to get it stabilized. One assistant argued that he had open heart surgery and Raymond had to convince him it was only an artery cleaning. A lovely, outgoing African woman tried to talk him into going back across the ocean with her and the man taking lunch orders was sorry to say they did not serve vinegar pie. So Raymond chose to return to Scottsburg over the exotic woman from across the pond, and I had homemade coconut cream pie waiting for him. All in all he did pretty well.
Dr. Alankar, the surgeon, must have had plastic surgery training for the incision was beautifully stitched. Raymond wore no visible bandage. His 83 year old wrinkles will surely hide the fact that he even "had some work done!"
Betty came home in good spirits. She warned that she may get her nose out of joint if Raymond received more attention so I'm going to have to be careful. I gave her part of my pie to keep her in a good mood. It seemed to help. Betty had a bed this morning during the transfusion and that helped. Devona chose to take a nap in the waiting room and a good Samaritan covered her sleeping form with a blanket to keep her warm. There are angels among us.
Raymond is presently in his recliner enjoying his favorite root beer sucker and watching TV. Betty is nestled in her wing back going in and out of a nap. We are all a little sleepy and a little grateful that all is well for now.
The Boley Family
Thursday 10:00
Raymond woke at 6 when the resident did rounds. Dennis said Raymond looks great and will probably come home when Dr. Alankar dismisses him later today. I think Dennis is ready to come home and get some rest.
We should put Raymond in charge of Medicare. His new campaign concerns room charges. He is arguing that he should not be charged for a room he didn't get until 2:45 this morning. He's not going to get his money's worth. He could get things straightened out.
The Boley Family
We should put Raymond in charge of Medicare. His new campaign concerns room charges. He is arguing that he should not be charged for a room he didn't get until 2:45 this morning. He's not going to get his money's worth. He could get things straightened out.
The Boley Family
Thursday Morning January 27th
Raymond was moved to a room at 2:45 this morning. He shared a couple of jokes with the new nurse and then drifted back to sleep. We don't know if Dennis was able to drift back to sleep or not. More later.
Betty entertained me with thoughts of food that she wanted to pack for today's picnic during her blood transfusion. She ordered a peanut butter and jelly sandwich cut in 4 pieces, cheese and crackers, a snack bar, yogart, Boost and candy. Could this mean she is starting to think about food again? She daringly ate jelly that contained sugar today. Brave woman!
I'm back down for a nap before the big boss shows up for my expert nursing care this afternoon. I have followed all of his directions, but when I spoke to him last night he let me off the hook by saying, "What ever you are going to do, do it." Does that mean I can put silverware in the dishwasher or disrespect his wash cloth? More will follow in this unfolding drama.
The Boley Family
Betty entertained me with thoughts of food that she wanted to pack for today's picnic during her blood transfusion. She ordered a peanut butter and jelly sandwich cut in 4 pieces, cheese and crackers, a snack bar, yogart, Boost and candy. Could this mean she is starting to think about food again? She daringly ate jelly that contained sugar today. Brave woman!
I'm back down for a nap before the big boss shows up for my expert nursing care this afternoon. I have followed all of his directions, but when I spoke to him last night he let me off the hook by saying, "What ever you are going to do, do it." Does that mean I can put silverware in the dishwasher or disrespect his wash cloth? More will follow in this unfolding drama.
The Boley Family
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Wednesday at 4:00
Betty was allowed to look in on Raymond in the recovery room after she finished her radiation appointment. He was just waking up and probably won't remember she was there, but she knows he is OK. Being tired after her long morning at Brown Cancer Center, she offered to crawl in bed with him and nap with him. The nurses enjoyed her humor. We took her home so that she could rest.
Devona, Dennis and Kendrah stayed. It's 4:00 and Dennis was allowed to visit with Raymond for 5 minutes. Raymond had coffee and a soft drink but no food. They are waiting for a room to open up.
The doctor was very pleased with the outcome of Raymond's procedure. Raymond received a local, numbing the neck area, and then a drug that put him to sleep. His neck should remain numb for about 12 hours. Since the injections were administered at 5 this morning, the numbing should be wearing off about now.
There were two transplant procedures occurring this morning. It was very exciting to hear the remarks of the families. Today's medical advances are truly amazing.
Betty is scheduled to begin her day at 7:45 in the morning. Her day will include radiation and then 6 hours of blood transfusions. While snacking on the cheese cubes Devona wisely bought for her, Betty actually planned a bag of snacks for her long day tomorrow. She talked about food!!!!!!
Raymond's sister, Alice Boley Nichols, visited last evening with gifts for all. Betty received a precious yellow flowering plant in a miniature basket and Raymond received a new "designer" dish cloth and dish towel for his house duties. Raymond immediately used his new dish cloth, but Betty challenged him to take better care of it than he had been caring for the old one. She explained that he should wring the cloth and drape it between the sinks. When we left this morning he pointed out the care of his new gift.
Several of us received very explicit directions on the care of household items. Now that Raymond has assumed more household responsibility he feels an obligation to inform us concerning his high standard of housework. (I say this with a smile on my face.) We should leave nothing running when we leave the house, the silverware must never be washed in the dish washer, and his PT Cruiser can only be driven in town. It has a new sound! We can barely keep from giggling as we warn each other.
Sharon and Dennis enjoyed a carpet picnic of deer summer sausage this morning. It was followed by several miniature bananas and fruit roll ups. Only adults attended this picnic!
The only difference in care between Norton's and Jewish is the direction the bed faces. Norton's patients face out and are able to see everything going on. Jewish patients face the wall, viewing only their monitor and allowing them to do foot exercises against the wall. Raymond focused on his blood pressure and talked about maintaining an acceptable reading. He was only slightly nervous. His nurse's name was Kimberly. He was so glad it was a familiar name that he could remember.
On to the next thing!!!!!!!!!!
The Boley Family
Devona, Dennis and Kendrah stayed. It's 4:00 and Dennis was allowed to visit with Raymond for 5 minutes. Raymond had coffee and a soft drink but no food. They are waiting for a room to open up.
The doctor was very pleased with the outcome of Raymond's procedure. Raymond received a local, numbing the neck area, and then a drug that put him to sleep. His neck should remain numb for about 12 hours. Since the injections were administered at 5 this morning, the numbing should be wearing off about now.
There were two transplant procedures occurring this morning. It was very exciting to hear the remarks of the families. Today's medical advances are truly amazing.
Betty is scheduled to begin her day at 7:45 in the morning. Her day will include radiation and then 6 hours of blood transfusions. While snacking on the cheese cubes Devona wisely bought for her, Betty actually planned a bag of snacks for her long day tomorrow. She talked about food!!!!!!
Raymond's sister, Alice Boley Nichols, visited last evening with gifts for all. Betty received a precious yellow flowering plant in a miniature basket and Raymond received a new "designer" dish cloth and dish towel for his house duties. Raymond immediately used his new dish cloth, but Betty challenged him to take better care of it than he had been caring for the old one. She explained that he should wring the cloth and drape it between the sinks. When we left this morning he pointed out the care of his new gift.
Several of us received very explicit directions on the care of household items. Now that Raymond has assumed more household responsibility he feels an obligation to inform us concerning his high standard of housework. (I say this with a smile on my face.) We should leave nothing running when we leave the house, the silverware must never be washed in the dish washer, and his PT Cruiser can only be driven in town. It has a new sound! We can barely keep from giggling as we warn each other.
Sharon and Dennis enjoyed a carpet picnic of deer summer sausage this morning. It was followed by several miniature bananas and fruit roll ups. Only adults attended this picnic!
The only difference in care between Norton's and Jewish is the direction the bed faces. Norton's patients face out and are able to see everything going on. Jewish patients face the wall, viewing only their monitor and allowing them to do foot exercises against the wall. Raymond focused on his blood pressure and talked about maintaining an acceptable reading. He was only slightly nervous. His nurse's name was Kimberly. He was so glad it was a familiar name that he could remember.
On to the next thing!!!!!!!!!!
The Boley Family
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Tuesday January 25th
I didn't realize that Raymond is referred to as "The Mayor" of Lexington. I've only known him 60 years. A friend called to leave a message of good luck and called him the Mayor. Who knew?
This morning the Mayor was concerned that his clothes matched. He had on a dark green and black plaid flannel shirt and blue jeans. He didn't know it they matched. He looked handsome as always.
The blood work for Raymond turned out to be a morning of checking in for tomorrow's procedure. We registered, visited with a nurse about his medical history, had blood drawn, and then visited with an anesthesiologist who took his medical history a second time. He used his standard joke on everyone available, "What goes up and never comes down?" We must get him a new joke!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The anesthesiologist asked if he owned a farm. He admitted he had been a farmer. I asked if I had noted it somewhere. She replied that usually men who were in such good health at his age were farmers.
Another humorous situation occurred when the first nurse invited me into her office. I'm sure she encounters many awkward situations and said to Raymond, "Would your ----------------," There was a nice long pause in which Raymond supplied, "Daughter." She then completed her invitation, "like to come into my office also?"
When instructed to leave his jewelry at home he lovingly caressed his wedding ring and pleaded, "Do I have to take it off?" The nurse asked if he had every taken it off to which he replied, "I've had it on for 60 some years." She was trying to come up with a solution for this request when he slipped it off and started talking about how much sturdier the ring was than his high school ring. He also added that he only took it off that year he worked at International Harvester in the 40s. It takes much patience to be an intake person in a hospital. I appreciated hers.
Betty's blood work revealed that she will be given 2 blood transfusions on Thursday. It will take six hours. Devona has signed on for that trip. Betty is having a good day today. She has her favorite soap opera on and is reading by the fire. This is a rare site.
The deer sausage guy appeared today with generous gifts. He brought both plain and spicy sausage. They were six inch logs and were frozen. Betty promised those that had been smiling a few days ago that she would share it tomorrow. She cut portions for her new best friends.
We'll be off at 4:30 in the morning. The Mayor should be home after a night's stay at the hospital with Dennis at his side. Right now he is out checking on the farm and enjoying his freedom. Tomorrow we're going to clip his wings for a while.
The Boley Family
This morning the Mayor was concerned that his clothes matched. He had on a dark green and black plaid flannel shirt and blue jeans. He didn't know it they matched. He looked handsome as always.
The blood work for Raymond turned out to be a morning of checking in for tomorrow's procedure. We registered, visited with a nurse about his medical history, had blood drawn, and then visited with an anesthesiologist who took his medical history a second time. He used his standard joke on everyone available, "What goes up and never comes down?" We must get him a new joke!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The anesthesiologist asked if he owned a farm. He admitted he had been a farmer. I asked if I had noted it somewhere. She replied that usually men who were in such good health at his age were farmers.
Another humorous situation occurred when the first nurse invited me into her office. I'm sure she encounters many awkward situations and said to Raymond, "Would your ----------------," There was a nice long pause in which Raymond supplied, "Daughter." She then completed her invitation, "like to come into my office also?"
When instructed to leave his jewelry at home he lovingly caressed his wedding ring and pleaded, "Do I have to take it off?" The nurse asked if he had every taken it off to which he replied, "I've had it on for 60 some years." She was trying to come up with a solution for this request when he slipped it off and started talking about how much sturdier the ring was than his high school ring. He also added that he only took it off that year he worked at International Harvester in the 40s. It takes much patience to be an intake person in a hospital. I appreciated hers.
Betty's blood work revealed that she will be given 2 blood transfusions on Thursday. It will take six hours. Devona has signed on for that trip. Betty is having a good day today. She has her favorite soap opera on and is reading by the fire. This is a rare site.
The deer sausage guy appeared today with generous gifts. He brought both plain and spicy sausage. They were six inch logs and were frozen. Betty promised those that had been smiling a few days ago that she would share it tomorrow. She cut portions for her new best friends.
We'll be off at 4:30 in the morning. The Mayor should be home after a night's stay at the hospital with Dennis at his side. Right now he is out checking on the farm and enjoying his freedom. Tomorrow we're going to clip his wings for a while.
The Boley Family
Monday, January 24, 2011
Monday Jan 24th
Betty had a wonderful meal on Saturday that Sharon catered. We saw her eat more than she had for quite a while. That is, she ate more than a Tablespoon. The last two days she hasn't enjoyed food. Tonight she looked at me kind of sheepishly as she was trying to eat the saucer full of Sharon's good left overs and said, "I'm forcing myself." I praised her. What more could I do?
I think she was trying to practice staying awake Saturday and Sunday to see if she thought she could accompany Raymond to his surgery, but she has accepted that she will have to be happy visiting him after her treatment. She'll get to see him when he is moved to his room. We are taking the wheel chair for her so she can enjoy the visit.
Since we have been floating between several hospitals and medical offices it is hard for Raymond to keep them straight. Let's hope we get to the right one on Wednesday morning for his surgery.
Raymond, on the other hand, was doing some good thinking and realized someone would need to spend the night so Betty wouldn't be alone when we leave for the hospital. It hadn't dawned on me!
There was no deer summer sausage in the waiting room this morning. As I predicted, many of those smiling faces had been dreaming all weekend about the sausage. They'll be looking for him every day until he returns.
Betty feels very popular on Monday's. She not only sees the radiation technicians, but also the nurse, the nurse practitioner, the resident, the doctor, and the chemo nurse who attaches the bag for the week. She is about half way through her treatments.
I may have shared that her potassium level was low last week. She is eating bananas and taking potassium. She may receive a blood transfusion on Thursday for low hemoglobin. That will take 3 extra hours, but promises to provide added energy.
We are in need of some prayers this week folks. Smooth sailing would be a blessing. I can see us on Thursday evening gathered around the fire watching Antiques Roadshow. Wouldn't that be nice!
I think she was trying to practice staying awake Saturday and Sunday to see if she thought she could accompany Raymond to his surgery, but she has accepted that she will have to be happy visiting him after her treatment. She'll get to see him when he is moved to his room. We are taking the wheel chair for her so she can enjoy the visit.
Since we have been floating between several hospitals and medical offices it is hard for Raymond to keep them straight. Let's hope we get to the right one on Wednesday morning for his surgery.
Raymond, on the other hand, was doing some good thinking and realized someone would need to spend the night so Betty wouldn't be alone when we leave for the hospital. It hadn't dawned on me!
There was no deer summer sausage in the waiting room this morning. As I predicted, many of those smiling faces had been dreaming all weekend about the sausage. They'll be looking for him every day until he returns.
Betty feels very popular on Monday's. She not only sees the radiation technicians, but also the nurse, the nurse practitioner, the resident, the doctor, and the chemo nurse who attaches the bag for the week. She is about half way through her treatments.
I may have shared that her potassium level was low last week. She is eating bananas and taking potassium. She may receive a blood transfusion on Thursday for low hemoglobin. That will take 3 extra hours, but promises to provide added energy.
We are in need of some prayers this week folks. Smooth sailing would be a blessing. I can see us on Thursday evening gathered around the fire watching Antiques Roadshow. Wouldn't that be nice!
Friday, January 21, 2011
Friday Afternoon
I must take a moment to apologize to Raymond. As it turns out the day that Raymond couldn't face changing Betty's bandage the feeding tube was actually working its way out. He was made fun of unnecessarily ---- this time!
Betty's feeding tube was removed and not replaced this morning. Betty feels good about loosing the tube which she has not used. We don't know if it will be replaced later.
Sharon brought cranberry muffins and fresh fruit this morning for our waiting room picnic. The conversation about the perfect recipe for cranberry bread continued later during Betty's radiation treatment. It seems Sharon uses a mix that starts with a K and gets at Wal-mart.
Katie enjoyed a tour of the radiation area and watched Betty's treatment on the video monitor used by the technicians. Raymond and Dennis enjoyed a jolly conversation in the radiation waiting room with a gentleman we see each day. He brings his wife for radiation. It seems he is an avid hunter and raved about the summer sausage made from the deer he nets. When asked if we would be there Monday morning he offered to bring a sample for taste testing. You should have seen the expressions on faces around the waiting room. I guarantee each one of them will be there Monday morning to see if the sausage appears.
The gentleman also shared a story of a favorite Thanksgiving when he prepared wild game for his families' dinner. It seems he only burned the meat a little, but his family adjourned to Burger King to complete their feast.
We will be sleeping this weekend to prepare for Raymond's big day on Wednesday. Betty's radiation and chemo treatments continue next week.
I forgot my book this morning and still don't know "Who done it."
The Boley Family
Betty's feeding tube was removed and not replaced this morning. Betty feels good about loosing the tube which she has not used. We don't know if it will be replaced later.
Sharon brought cranberry muffins and fresh fruit this morning for our waiting room picnic. The conversation about the perfect recipe for cranberry bread continued later during Betty's radiation treatment. It seems Sharon uses a mix that starts with a K and gets at Wal-mart.
Katie enjoyed a tour of the radiation area and watched Betty's treatment on the video monitor used by the technicians. Raymond and Dennis enjoyed a jolly conversation in the radiation waiting room with a gentleman we see each day. He brings his wife for radiation. It seems he is an avid hunter and raved about the summer sausage made from the deer he nets. When asked if we would be there Monday morning he offered to bring a sample for taste testing. You should have seen the expressions on faces around the waiting room. I guarantee each one of them will be there Monday morning to see if the sausage appears.
The gentleman also shared a story of a favorite Thanksgiving when he prepared wild game for his families' dinner. It seems he only burned the meat a little, but his family adjourned to Burger King to complete their feast.
We will be sleeping this weekend to prepare for Raymond's big day on Wednesday. Betty's radiation and chemo treatments continue next week.
I forgot my book this morning and still don't know "Who done it."
The Boley Family
Friday Morning
It's 4:30 and we're awake. Sharon's bringing muffins to the hospital. Now for a new feeding tube! Betty had a good night.
Raymond's standing at the kitchen window watching for Dennis. He seems to think traffic is moving rather briskly on the highway.
I'm at the part in my book where I'll find out "Who done it." This morning holds lots of surprises.
The Boley Family
Raymond's standing at the kitchen window watching for Dennis. He seems to think traffic is moving rather briskly on the highway.
I'm at the part in my book where I'll find out "Who done it." This morning holds lots of surprises.
The Boley Family
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Did you realize it snowed today? Dear Dennis arrived a little after nine to drive Betty and Raymond through the falling snow to Louisville. Devona went along to help! Have I mentioned lately how much I appreciate my siblings? I get tense about something and one of them takes over and solves the problem. I'm sorry for every mean thing I did to you when you were little dear siblings.
Betty woke with a damp neckline on her gown this morning. There was a problem with her chemo. I called the trouble shooting office for the pump and they met Betty at the Brown Cancer Center to take care of the problem immediately.
Betty had a problem with the feeding tube and I called Dr. Martin's office and a couple hours later his office had arranged the procedure to replace it.
I continue to be amazed at the fluid cooperation between departments at the Brown Cancer Center and their ability to problem solve and make "it" happen immediately. There's no waiting until next week for an appointment. Blood work is done before a radiation appointment and before you leave the labs are back and the appropriate medication has been ordered for pick up at your pharmacy.
If you are diagnosed with cancer, run, don't walk, to the Brown Cancer Center. Raymond was concerned about driving in Louisville so we didn't choose Brown first. We should have. We are in good hands and Raymond hasn't gotten lost once. Did I mention Betty grew up driving in Louisville? She keeps him going in the right direction.
I imagine Betty will be sleeping this weekend after her early morning tomorrow. I hope she wakes up occasionally to visit with Katie. I've heard some lovely stories of singing Christmas Carols with Desmond Tutu and something about snorkeling in Belize on New Year's Day. Did I mention she has a tan? Let's go south!
The Boley Family
Betty woke with a damp neckline on her gown this morning. There was a problem with her chemo. I called the trouble shooting office for the pump and they met Betty at the Brown Cancer Center to take care of the problem immediately.
Betty had a problem with the feeding tube and I called Dr. Martin's office and a couple hours later his office had arranged the procedure to replace it.
I continue to be amazed at the fluid cooperation between departments at the Brown Cancer Center and their ability to problem solve and make "it" happen immediately. There's no waiting until next week for an appointment. Blood work is done before a radiation appointment and before you leave the labs are back and the appropriate medication has been ordered for pick up at your pharmacy.
If you are diagnosed with cancer, run, don't walk, to the Brown Cancer Center. Raymond was concerned about driving in Louisville so we didn't choose Brown first. We should have. We are in good hands and Raymond hasn't gotten lost once. Did I mention Betty grew up driving in Louisville? She keeps him going in the right direction.
I imagine Betty will be sleeping this weekend after her early morning tomorrow. I hope she wakes up occasionally to visit with Katie. I've heard some lovely stories of singing Christmas Carols with Desmond Tutu and something about snorkeling in Belize on New Year's Day. Did I mention she has a tan? Let's go south!
The Boley Family
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Wednesday, Jan. 19th
Thank heavens for computer geeks!!!!!!! My wonderful nephew-in-law installed the Internet at Betty and Raymond's this evening. I am writing to you from beautiful downtown Scottsburg, Indiana!
My daughter, Katie, arrived this evening for a visit from The University of Iowa. She will visit for a few days and try to find a window of good weather for the return trip. She spent Christmas vacation on the Semester At Sea Cruise Ship sailing through the Panama Canal. Semester At Sea is an alternative college travel program where students travel the world earning college credit and visiting foreign ports. Katie worked for one voyage after completing her masters. Now she continues her association with the program by representing them at travel abroad fairs and organizing travel groups. The Christmas voyage was a three week repositioning cruise taking the ship from the west coast to the east coast for the Spring Semester Voyage. Many seniors were on board for an enrichment program featuring Desmond Tutu. Katie came home with a tan and many new nativities for our collection from the Central American countries she visited. I opened my Christmas presents tonight!
Raymond continues to thank us for our help. It's not hard to do for ones that have done so much for us. It's an honor.
Betty must have her feeding tube replaced Friday morning in an outpatient procedure. I hate that we have encountered this additional problem, but I am most grateful that it will be a simple procedure and didn't happen at a time when she was dependent on the tube for nourishment. Dennis is in charge of transportation on Friday. She has to be there at 6 in the morning.
Betty's McCammon family relatives have met every month for lunch for as long as I can remember. Betty dressed in her nice suede jacket, new pants and put on ear rings in the hope that she would feel well enough to stop by. She joined them and enjoyed visiting. We shared a vegetable plate. It felt so great to see her looking so good. After a nap I had to tell her about the feeding tube. I hated to ruin her day, but Katie's arrival cheered her up.
Thanks for reading about our day,
The Boley Family
My daughter, Katie, arrived this evening for a visit from The University of Iowa. She will visit for a few days and try to find a window of good weather for the return trip. She spent Christmas vacation on the Semester At Sea Cruise Ship sailing through the Panama Canal. Semester At Sea is an alternative college travel program where students travel the world earning college credit and visiting foreign ports. Katie worked for one voyage after completing her masters. Now she continues her association with the program by representing them at travel abroad fairs and organizing travel groups. The Christmas voyage was a three week repositioning cruise taking the ship from the west coast to the east coast for the Spring Semester Voyage. Many seniors were on board for an enrichment program featuring Desmond Tutu. Katie came home with a tan and many new nativities for our collection from the Central American countries she visited. I opened my Christmas presents tonight!
Raymond continues to thank us for our help. It's not hard to do for ones that have done so much for us. It's an honor.
Betty must have her feeding tube replaced Friday morning in an outpatient procedure. I hate that we have encountered this additional problem, but I am most grateful that it will be a simple procedure and didn't happen at a time when she was dependent on the tube for nourishment. Dennis is in charge of transportation on Friday. She has to be there at 6 in the morning.
Betty's McCammon family relatives have met every month for lunch for as long as I can remember. Betty dressed in her nice suede jacket, new pants and put on ear rings in the hope that she would feel well enough to stop by. She joined them and enjoyed visiting. We shared a vegetable plate. It felt so great to see her looking so good. After a nap I had to tell her about the feeding tube. I hated to ruin her day, but Katie's arrival cheered her up.
Thanks for reading about our day,
The Boley Family
Monday, January 17, 2011
Raymond's Surgery
Raymond passed with flying colors today! His stress test was current enough along with today's EKG that the doctor OKed him for the surgery.
The surgery will be next Wednesday, January 26th at 7:30. It will be done at Jewish and will take less than two hours. He will stay over night and will be released the next afternoon. Dennis is going to spend the night with him. There will be tales to tell, I'm sure! Those poor nurses.
The recuperation should take two weeks. We will have him back out digging ditches before you know it. Don't hesitate to come by to see him. He will enjoy the attention and Mom will probably be sleeping. You might want to call first.
Betty had her 9th radiation treatment this morning and the chemo was reattached. She hadn't lost weight this week! She had gained a pound. I was feeling so guilty that I had not gotten enough calories in her this week and now I feel better. She's going to try taking a bite of something every hour this week. Bless her heart!
Big News! Betty and Raymond are joining the cyber generation. We have ordered the Internet at their home so I can work on the McCammon and Prather books while I am there helping. I hope Raymond doesn't get attached so that I can't get my work done. I'll be able to show them your posts as soon as I get them. Keep them coming.
Sharon brought food on Sunday. Raymond was raving about the food after she left. I asked what he enjoyed most. He replied, "The gourd salad." It took a minute before I realized he was talking about the zucchini casserole. I smiled.
What am I going to do when I loose my cooking and dish washing partner for a couple weeks? I hope he doesn't use his surgery as an excuse to get out of house work. Saturday after helping change their bed linens, Betty asked him to use the sweeper in the living room while she worked in the bathroom. He said,"Whee, I'd better sit down for a minute and rest." Pray for me, please!
Thanks for the cookbook orders. The girls will let you know what they need.
The Boley Family
The surgery will be next Wednesday, January 26th at 7:30. It will be done at Jewish and will take less than two hours. He will stay over night and will be released the next afternoon. Dennis is going to spend the night with him. There will be tales to tell, I'm sure! Those poor nurses.
The recuperation should take two weeks. We will have him back out digging ditches before you know it. Don't hesitate to come by to see him. He will enjoy the attention and Mom will probably be sleeping. You might want to call first.
Betty had her 9th radiation treatment this morning and the chemo was reattached. She hadn't lost weight this week! She had gained a pound. I was feeling so guilty that I had not gotten enough calories in her this week and now I feel better. She's going to try taking a bite of something every hour this week. Bless her heart!
Big News! Betty and Raymond are joining the cyber generation. We have ordered the Internet at their home so I can work on the McCammon and Prather books while I am there helping. I hope Raymond doesn't get attached so that I can't get my work done. I'll be able to show them your posts as soon as I get them. Keep them coming.
Sharon brought food on Sunday. Raymond was raving about the food after she left. I asked what he enjoyed most. He replied, "The gourd salad." It took a minute before I realized he was talking about the zucchini casserole. I smiled.
What am I going to do when I loose my cooking and dish washing partner for a couple weeks? I hope he doesn't use his surgery as an excuse to get out of house work. Saturday after helping change their bed linens, Betty asked him to use the sweeper in the living room while she worked in the bathroom. He said,"Whee, I'd better sit down for a minute and rest." Pray for me, please!
Thanks for the cookbook orders. The girls will let you know what they need.
The Boley Family
Friday, January 14, 2011
Boley Cook Book
Kendrah Burns, Betty's granddaughter, has been working on this cook book for over a year. Karoline and Katie helped her edit it over Christmas and we have gotten to see all her hard work. It contains our favorite recipes, family pictures, and comments from family members. We printed only enough of the books for our family. Since friends have seen them we have been asked to reprint the book.
Since this is a self published book, the cost is a little high. The books will be $25.00. After printing costs and postage any extra money made through sales will be donated to the American Cancer Society. If you would like to order one please send your contact information through the comment section of this blog or call Devona Burns at 812 752 6240.
Thank you Kendrah, for your dedication and hard work.
The Boley Family
Since this is a self published book, the cost is a little high. The books will be $25.00. After printing costs and postage any extra money made through sales will be donated to the American Cancer Society. If you would like to order one please send your contact information through the comment section of this blog or call Devona Burns at 812 752 6240.
Thank you Kendrah, for your dedication and hard work.
The Boley Family
Friday , January 14th
Betty's hemoglobin is down and they may give her a transfusion to give her more energy. We'll know more on Wednesday. We're 1/3 of the way through her treatments.
Raymond has an 80% blockage in his left carotid artery. They are going to try to get him in for surgery as quickly as possible so he can heal. This is not because it's an emergency, it is to help us, the care givers. He will see the cardio doctor who did his stress test this year on Monday. If he checks out, the surgery will be scheduled. Raymond won't be able to drive for two weeks. You'll have to come and get him if you want to have coffee with him.
We thank Sarah Feltner for discovering this condition. She is an excellent practitioner.
Last night's Boley dinner to celebrate birthdays and say farewell to Rayanne before she heads back to college went nicely. Betty was a little tired. She enjoyed watching Karoline's new baby and of course we all enjoyed watching Abbagail who is in her second year for all that is worth!!!!!!!!! We are puddy in her hands.
The Boley Family
Raymond has an 80% blockage in his left carotid artery. They are going to try to get him in for surgery as quickly as possible so he can heal. This is not because it's an emergency, it is to help us, the care givers. He will see the cardio doctor who did his stress test this year on Monday. If he checks out, the surgery will be scheduled. Raymond won't be able to drive for two weeks. You'll have to come and get him if you want to have coffee with him.
We thank Sarah Feltner for discovering this condition. She is an excellent practitioner.
Last night's Boley dinner to celebrate birthdays and say farewell to Rayanne before she heads back to college went nicely. Betty was a little tired. She enjoyed watching Karoline's new baby and of course we all enjoyed watching Abbagail who is in her second year for all that is worth!!!!!!!!! We are puddy in her hands.
The Boley Family
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Thursday, January 13th
I'm beginning to dread good days for Betty because the next day is usually not so good. Raymond and I have a hard time staying seated when we see her straightening the refrigerator or starting a load of clothes, but he'll look at me and say, "I think she feels better today." His comment is usually followed by a smile.
Last night I found the laundry I had started folded on my bed. I felt very humbled to think she was doing my laundry. Later she spent a half hour visiting on the phone with a friend. She spoke with joy and I could hear her in the next room. This is not usually the case. I got her a Mr. Frosty and she pushed her bowl of mushroom soup aside to dig into her favorite treat. She only ate a few spoon fulls. She then spent much effort trying to write her name on the cup. Dad and I promised to leave her treat alone so it is safe in the freezer when she wants it.
She was worn out this morning and wanted to linger in bed rather than dress for the trip to Louisville. Such is the aftermath of a good day.
The dietitian at the Brown Cancer Center shared advice today for beefing up Betty's diet. She eats so little, I have to do a better job of packing as many calories as I can into a few tablespoons. This is a new twist for one who spends so much time trying to eliminate calories from my diet. I mixed banana, peanut butter, dried milk and ice cream with one can of Boost liquid nutrition. It was rich to say the least and it tasted nice, but sweet.
Raymond finally allowed himself to go to his favorite hangout for coffee with his friends after we returned from Louisville. He always orders 1/2 of a bologna sandwich and gets a glass of water. You'd think he couldn't afford any more. I get so tickled with him. The reason he hadn't wanted to get out in public is because he didn't know what to say to people. We don't know what is going to happen. It has been easier to rely on this blog to get the word out to friends. I stuck several slips of paper in his pocket that contained the blog address for friends who might be interested. He gets a little unnerved by all the women he doesn't really know who hug him and ask about Betty. He says, "I don't know who they are."
Sickness is hard for the family and the friends. Thank you for all your support and loving concern. Keep hugging him. He'll get over it.
The Boley Family
Last night I found the laundry I had started folded on my bed. I felt very humbled to think she was doing my laundry. Later she spent a half hour visiting on the phone with a friend. She spoke with joy and I could hear her in the next room. This is not usually the case. I got her a Mr. Frosty and she pushed her bowl of mushroom soup aside to dig into her favorite treat. She only ate a few spoon fulls. She then spent much effort trying to write her name on the cup. Dad and I promised to leave her treat alone so it is safe in the freezer when she wants it.
She was worn out this morning and wanted to linger in bed rather than dress for the trip to Louisville. Such is the aftermath of a good day.
The dietitian at the Brown Cancer Center shared advice today for beefing up Betty's diet. She eats so little, I have to do a better job of packing as many calories as I can into a few tablespoons. This is a new twist for one who spends so much time trying to eliminate calories from my diet. I mixed banana, peanut butter, dried milk and ice cream with one can of Boost liquid nutrition. It was rich to say the least and it tasted nice, but sweet.
Raymond finally allowed himself to go to his favorite hangout for coffee with his friends after we returned from Louisville. He always orders 1/2 of a bologna sandwich and gets a glass of water. You'd think he couldn't afford any more. I get so tickled with him. The reason he hadn't wanted to get out in public is because he didn't know what to say to people. We don't know what is going to happen. It has been easier to rely on this blog to get the word out to friends. I stuck several slips of paper in his pocket that contained the blog address for friends who might be interested. He gets a little unnerved by all the women he doesn't really know who hug him and ask about Betty. He says, "I don't know who they are."
Sickness is hard for the family and the friends. Thank you for all your support and loving concern. Keep hugging him. He'll get over it.
The Boley Family
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Wednesday, January 12
Betty's body seems to be adjusting to the chemo and radiation. Although totally without energy, she is able to eat and sleep comfortably.
Dennis drove on Tuesday during the snow. They encountered the semi problem on 65 and the bridge being closed so it is a good thing he was along to navigate the detours.
Raymond has discovered the root beer suckers in the waiting room at the Brown Cancer Center. He smiled today after his first taste and said, "I really like these." I stuck one in my pocket to surprise him with later on. The technicians gave us a tour of the equipment used in Betty's treatment. They are lovely to Betty.
Raymond sees the vascular surgeon on Friday afternoon. Keep your fingers crossed!
The Boley Family
Dennis drove on Tuesday during the snow. They encountered the semi problem on 65 and the bridge being closed so it is a good thing he was along to navigate the detours.
Raymond has discovered the root beer suckers in the waiting room at the Brown Cancer Center. He smiled today after his first taste and said, "I really like these." I stuck one in my pocket to surprise him with later on. The technicians gave us a tour of the equipment used in Betty's treatment. They are lovely to Betty.
Raymond sees the vascular surgeon on Friday afternoon. Keep your fingers crossed!
The Boley Family
Monday, January 10, 2011
Monday Jan. 10th
Good Day Friends,
Betty was relieved to have the chemo apparatus removed on Saturday. She had two days without her little friend, but it is back again today for the week. We enjoy the people who attach and detach the chemo. They are so patient and kind. Betty worries about the batteries. I'm glad she has something on which to concentrate.
She has experienced the normal reactions associated with chemo. We were so excited yesterday because she nibbled all day long. Late in the evening she lost it so she got no nutrition. It won't be long before she asks me politely to go home. There are just so many times one can hear, "Would you like a ---------?" She's still answering, but I imagine soon she'll ignore me.
The doctors today were not able to suggest anything new to help. We are doing everything they suggested. We are to call them if the same symptoms persist.
Raymond had the CT scan today. Dennis drove us to Jewish. He was a great chauffeur. The tech was so excited because for the first time she got to use the largest needle available on his "large veins." He was very proud! We will hear this Friday about the doctor's plans.
After Raymond's appointment they dropped me off at the Brown Cancer Center and I caught up with Betty during the doctor's visit and the reconnection of the chemo. Devona and Betty are going to try it on their own tomorrow if they can slip out of the house without Raymond tagging along. He needs to get out and see his friends. I couldn't believe the conversation he and Dennis had on the way to the hospital! He didn't stop talking. It must be very boring having daughters around all the time!
I think the next four weeks are going to contain lots of sleeping and nausea. It isn't fun for her. She enjoys the cards you continue to send and looks forward to The View and Oprah.
Keep Praying,
The Boley Family
Betty was relieved to have the chemo apparatus removed on Saturday. She had two days without her little friend, but it is back again today for the week. We enjoy the people who attach and detach the chemo. They are so patient and kind. Betty worries about the batteries. I'm glad she has something on which to concentrate.
She has experienced the normal reactions associated with chemo. We were so excited yesterday because she nibbled all day long. Late in the evening she lost it so she got no nutrition. It won't be long before she asks me politely to go home. There are just so many times one can hear, "Would you like a ---------?" She's still answering, but I imagine soon she'll ignore me.
The doctors today were not able to suggest anything new to help. We are doing everything they suggested. We are to call them if the same symptoms persist.
Raymond had the CT scan today. Dennis drove us to Jewish. He was a great chauffeur. The tech was so excited because for the first time she got to use the largest needle available on his "large veins." He was very proud! We will hear this Friday about the doctor's plans.
After Raymond's appointment they dropped me off at the Brown Cancer Center and I caught up with Betty during the doctor's visit and the reconnection of the chemo. Devona and Betty are going to try it on their own tomorrow if they can slip out of the house without Raymond tagging along. He needs to get out and see his friends. I couldn't believe the conversation he and Dennis had on the way to the hospital! He didn't stop talking. It must be very boring having daughters around all the time!
I think the next four weeks are going to contain lots of sleeping and nausea. It isn't fun for her. She enjoys the cards you continue to send and looks forward to The View and Oprah.
Keep Praying,
The Boley Family
Friday, January 7, 2011
2nd Day of Radiation
The radiation treatments are very quick and painless. The entire visit to the Brown Cancer Center can take less than a half hour.
Betty is sleeping a great deal, but is getting along fine with the chemo that she carries with her in a fanny pac.
We should finish this phase of her treatment around Valentine's Day. After that, we don't know.
Raymond has a CAT scan Monday.
Raymond peeled potatoes last night while watching the evening news. We had a great meal and Betty tried her best to eat some of everything offered.
Betty is sleeping a great deal, but is getting along fine with the chemo that she carries with her in a fanny pac.
We should finish this phase of her treatment around Valentine's Day. After that, we don't know.
Raymond has a CAT scan Monday.
Raymond peeled potatoes last night while watching the evening news. We had a great meal and Betty tried her best to eat some of everything offered.
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Thursday
Betty slept through the night with her new best friend, the chemo pump. She says it makes small noises, but she slept soundly. We are pretty sure that the only thing we will have to do is change the batteries when the pump let's us know.
Today's trip for radiation went smoothly. We were there a very short time. She wanted a White Castle and chocolate milk shake after. It was so good to see her eating.
Dennis is in charge of transportation tomorrow if the weather is bad so don't worry.
We're going to try to stitch this afternoon.
Smile!
The Boley Family
Today's trip for radiation went smoothly. We were there a very short time. She wanted a White Castle and chocolate milk shake after. It was so good to see her eating.
Dennis is in charge of transportation tomorrow if the weather is bad so don't worry.
We're going to try to stitch this afternoon.
Smile!
The Boley Family
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Betty, Raymond, Sandy, Devona, Dennis, Jill, and Sharon made our first visit at the Brown Cancer Center today. Betty received her first radiation treatment and was started on her chemo. As of today, Betty will have 20-23 treatments and all of the radiation treatments will take place at the Brown Cancer Center. The chemo(5FU for those of you that would like to research the drug) is a continuous pump that will run Monday thru Saturday. A home health nurse will visit Betty on Saturday to disconnect the chemo for the weekend and then it will be started again on Monday.
Thanks again to everyone for your prayers.
Thanks again to everyone for your prayers.
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Devona's email to the family gives the other side of yesterday's story.
"I really enjoyed my time alone with mother yesterday. I think things work out for the best sometimes. She did a great job and kept up with me. We went to the wrong building and she even did great with that. She ate really well at lunch and gave me several options to stop at, I let her pick though.
She said she hated having to depend on all of us and I told her it was a blessing to us because it let us feel like we are doing something. The Dr. told her to eat anything that she thought about. He was mainly concerned about getting the vitamins and etc. that she needs.
Thanks to everyone for their quick help yesterday. All mom told me when she called was that Dad had one of those spells, nothing about the tube. I think the break probably did him good. Makes me see how lucky we have been to have a father to love our mother with the passion that he does. He does love her as the bible instructs- to love your wife as Christ loves the church. When we got back and came in the door he said," There is my sweet ,sweet, precious girl."
I think he missed her."
The insurance company OKed medication for nausea they had denied. Thanks to Devona, Sharon, the drug store and Brown Cancer Center! It was a team effort!
I took two calls yesterday while I was with Raymond. There were lots of instructions concerning our first visit for treatment on Wednesday. I tried to explain to Raymond the important things we needed to remember and wrote notes to remind them. He said again and again, "What do people do who have no help?"
I think that's what we need to learn from this. If you know someone with this kind of challenge who has no support system, get involved.
The Boley Family
"I really enjoyed my time alone with mother yesterday. I think things work out for the best sometimes. She did a great job and kept up with me. We went to the wrong building and she even did great with that. She ate really well at lunch and gave me several options to stop at, I let her pick though.
She said she hated having to depend on all of us and I told her it was a blessing to us because it let us feel like we are doing something. The Dr. told her to eat anything that she thought about. He was mainly concerned about getting the vitamins and etc. that she needs.
Thanks to everyone for their quick help yesterday. All mom told me when she called was that Dad had one of those spells, nothing about the tube. I think the break probably did him good. Makes me see how lucky we have been to have a father to love our mother with the passion that he does. He does love her as the bible instructs- to love your wife as Christ loves the church. When we got back and came in the door he said," There is my sweet ,sweet, precious girl."
I think he missed her."
The insurance company OKed medication for nausea they had denied. Thanks to Devona, Sharon, the drug store and Brown Cancer Center! It was a team effort!
I took two calls yesterday while I was with Raymond. There were lots of instructions concerning our first visit for treatment on Wednesday. I tried to explain to Raymond the important things we needed to remember and wrote notes to remind them. He said again and again, "What do people do who have no help?"
I think that's what we need to learn from this. If you know someone with this kind of challenge who has no support system, get involved.
The Boley Family
Monday, January 3, 2011
There was excitement at the Boley’s this morning!
Betty’s appointment this morning with her doctor concerning care of her feeding tube had her preparing to dress. Raymond was eating a huge bowl of oatmeal and applesauce. Betty called Raymond for help dressing the feeding tube wound. He took one look at the tube this morning, experienced dizziness, lost his appetite, and caused a chain reaction that is funny------------ now!
Devona arrived in the middle of this morning’s excitement and called me in Madison saying Dad was having a “spell.” His last “spell” turned out to be an inner ear infection so what now? Was this related to the carotid artery situation? While trying to quickly dress, I called Sharon to see if she thought we should consult the vascular surgeon when his office opened. I called Dennis to check in with Dad while Devona left with Mom and I was trying to get to Scottsburg. I was trying to determine our next action; wishing I was a health care professional so I would know what to do.
And all this time Dennis and Raymond were sitting around the kitchen table chuckling at the trouble some of our Boley family have with medical situations and blood. Raymond wasn’t have a “spell”. He just wasn’t capable of dressing a wound this morning. That’s it, plain and simple. Although he has been helping dress her wound for several weeks, this morning the tube seemed to be coming out and he panicked!
I arrived prepared to problem solve and the problem was solved. Betty was on her way to Louisville, Dennis was soon on his way to work, and Raymond dumped the other half of his oatmeal down the drain. It just didn’t seem that appealing!
Years ago before cell phones, when Dennis was old enough to accompany Raymond to the woods and Devona was old enough to stay home by herself, another chain reaction created havoc. Dennis was standing too close to the trunk of a tree Raymond was trying to cut with a chain saw. The saw blade touched his shin, but only did surface damage. Raymond carried Dennis into the house finding everyone gone except Devona. She took one look at Dennis’s leg and fainted splitting her lip on the fire place as she fell. Betty and I were returning from Scottsburg when we passed Raymond headed the other way. Headlights flashed!!!!!!!!!
Raymond gladly turned his carload of accident victims over to us and we took them to the doctor for first aide. Devona still leaves the room during medical situations and that is why she is in charge of thoughtfulness, food service and transportation during our present situation.
Do you think I have time to get my medical degree before the next crisis?
Footnote: The feeding tube is anchored with a balloon so it won’t come out. Now that we know that, Raymond will have to come up with a better excuse the next time it bothers him. His CT scan isn't until Monday.
The Boley Family
Devona arrived in the middle of this morning’s excitement and called me in Madison saying Dad was having a “spell.” His last “spell” turned out to be an inner ear infection so what now? Was this related to the carotid artery situation? While trying to quickly dress, I called Sharon to see if she thought we should consult the vascular surgeon when his office opened. I called Dennis to check in with Dad while Devona left with Mom and I was trying to get to Scottsburg. I was trying to determine our next action; wishing I was a health care professional so I would know what to do.
And all this time Dennis and Raymond were sitting around the kitchen table chuckling at the trouble some of our Boley family have with medical situations and blood. Raymond wasn’t have a “spell”. He just wasn’t capable of dressing a wound this morning. That’s it, plain and simple. Although he has been helping dress her wound for several weeks, this morning the tube seemed to be coming out and he panicked!
I arrived prepared to problem solve and the problem was solved. Betty was on her way to Louisville, Dennis was soon on his way to work, and Raymond dumped the other half of his oatmeal down the drain. It just didn’t seem that appealing!
Years ago before cell phones, when Dennis was old enough to accompany Raymond to the woods and Devona was old enough to stay home by herself, another chain reaction created havoc. Dennis was standing too close to the trunk of a tree Raymond was trying to cut with a chain saw. The saw blade touched his shin, but only did surface damage. Raymond carried Dennis into the house finding everyone gone except Devona. She took one look at Dennis’s leg and fainted splitting her lip on the fire place as she fell. Betty and I were returning from Scottsburg when we passed Raymond headed the other way. Headlights flashed!!!!!!!!!
Raymond gladly turned his carload of accident victims over to us and we took them to the doctor for first aide. Devona still leaves the room during medical situations and that is why she is in charge of thoughtfulness, food service and transportation during our present situation.
Do you think I have time to get my medical degree before the next crisis?
Footnote: The feeding tube is anchored with a balloon so it won’t come out. Now that we know that, Raymond will have to come up with a better excuse the next time it bothers him. His CT scan isn't until Monday.
The Boley Family
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